za 1SexGOD :This was my thought as well. Then again, so many women get their performance queues from online porn these days, which is basically a compilation of exaggerated experiences that produces questionable results for both males and females. In the time before the internet, the more confident and wise women and men would actually ASK their sexual partners what they enjoyed and what makes them feel good. The younger generations have progressively gotten more insecure about appearing inexperienced sexually, thus resulting in the many mimicked performances of what they think is going to make heir partners feel good.